Saturday, September 30, 2017

Day 3 - Catching Fish

- September 30 -

Orange Beach, Alabama - Destin Florida

Good Mornin' ya'll!  Another beautiful day at sea...

As we were trucking along we came across a few fishing boats so we dropped our speed and dropped in our lines to troll.  Jayden and Joie were holding the lines for awhile but they didn’t get any bites. I took over Joie’s line.  We still weren’t getting anything and were well past the fisherman so we started reeling in our lines.  As I was reeling mine in I could swear I was getting some bites but I couldn’t really tell.  I kept reeling it in.  As the end of the line got closer I could see my tackle, but I thought it looked a little different.  Jacob was on the fly deck looking down so I asked him if it looked like I had a fish.  He didn’t think so.  It wasn’t until I reeled it all the way in that we realized I caught a fish!  First fish of the trip!  He flipped and flopped around freeing himself from the hook and dropped inside the back of the boat.  At that very same moment Joie slipped coming down from the fly deck and flopped on the deck too!  Luckily, she didn’t get hurt.

The kids and I were thrilled about catching the fish until we could see that it was dying.  Then we felt bad for killing it.  We planned to cook it so it surely wasn’t dying in vain.  We didn’t even know what kind of fish it was until Joie searched the internet to find it was a Spanish Mackerel; tastiest one in the mackerel family.  Lucky us!  We chopped off his head, wrapped him up, and put him over ice to eat later.
Today felt like the longest day ever!  Though it was a pretty short trip it seemed like we were never going to make it to Destin.  We didn’t run the generator today because it more than doubled our gas consumption.  At one point we got so hot that we all needed to cool down.  I would have loved to jump into the water but there were so many jellyfish.  We even saw two manta war.  No thank you!  I think I’ll stay inside the boat.
We sat on the bow of the boat with our legs dangling letting the waves splash and pound on our legs.  It was refreshing and felt like a massage on my calves, a perfectly safe way to cool down.  Jacob even got to do it while he let Jayden captain Dream Catcher on autopilot.  After that Joie and I hung out on the fly deck where the breeze was stronger and cooler.
We were really excited to get to Destin.  When we drove through it on our way to drop off our truck to be shipped to St. Thomas we saw how crystal blue the water was, just like the Caribbean.  We specifically chose to come back to Destin so we could hang out at Crab Island.  It’s a sand bar with a floating restaurant, bar, and water slides.  Boaters anchor up and gather around to hangout.  It looked like a bunch of fun.
It was sunny and beautiful all day, but as we finally reached Destin the clouds were rolling in.  We pulled straight into Crab Island.  It didn’t look as pretty as it did when we drove through because the sun wasn’t out, but we anchored up anyway hoping to hop in with everyone else.  Just as we were about to jump in the water it started to pouring.  We’ve had so many awesome blessing lately how could we complain.  We pulled up the anchor and headed to Harbor Walk Marina.  We agreed we would go back to Crab Island tomorrow considering that was the biggest reason we stopped in Destin.  We pulled into the dock with our swimsuits on in the pouring rain.  It seemed like everyone was seeking shelter at the same time in a narrow channel.  Two pontoon boats actually ran aground while we were getting drenched tying up our boat in yet another wood piling marina, lol.  We are getting much better at tying up, but it still makes me nervous.  Somehow we were blessed with a free night stay, saving us $160.  This is the most expensive marina we’ve stayed at. 

We opted for dinner on the the Harbor Walk since there were many choices available.  We ate dinner at Harry T’s since they were dog friendly.  That was the only good thing, none of us were impressed with the over-priced food.  After that we headed back to the boat to watch Jerry Seinfeld on Netflix before going to sleep         

Friday, September 29, 2017

Day 2

- September 29 -         

          Biloxi, Mississippi – Orange Beach, Alabama   (82 miles)

Ready, Set, Go.  Cup of coffee, walk the dog, start the engines.  Uh oh!  One of the engines won’t start.  We get a little worried after yesterday’s incident with the generator that wouldn’t start.  Jacob climbs into the engine room, fiddles with it a bit, and Viola! We are good to go.  Unplug shore power, start the generator, untie and push off.  Pulling out of the slip was nice and smooth today, but as we approached the concrete wall exit of the marina my heart started to race!  We were heading straight for it!  Jacob yelled, “I don’t have power.”  Oh my gosh!  Day 2 and we may crash!!  I ran to the bow with the kids prepping to push us away from it.  As I reached the front of the boat my panic peaked a bit more.  Jacob chuckled.  After he got the troubled engine started he forgot to turn back on the other one.  Hahahaha, amateurs.  With both engines working he easily maneuvered us out.
With a breeze in the air we crossed over the mouth of the Mississippi river.  A few moments later dolphins started jumping out of the water.  It was like they were saying farewell.  Because of the low tide we couldn’t take inter-coastal waters. There were so many no-wake zones and bridges that we were debating on taking them anyway. The weather was fabulous so the open ocean was nice and smooth.

Joie finished my henna tattoo, I did her hair wrap, Jacob captained and DJ’d the boat while Jayden slept.  The rocking of the boat makes him sleepy.  Multiple times dolphins raced and jumped beside our boat.  Especially near Dauphin Island.  At one point there were 8 dolphins around us.  Jacob and Joie saw a turtle and Jayden spotted a bunch of jellyfish as we approached Alabama waters.

We easily docked up at Orange Beach Marina even though it looked like it was gonna be tough.  It was another wood piling marina.  We are starting to understand why a boat hook is a handy tool.  Since we didn’t have a hook we had to lasso around the pole.  This marina was awesome! It even had a complementary car.  That’s super convenient for transient boaters so we went to the grocery store bought some groceries and dinner for the kids.  Then Jacob and I headed to the nearby state-border city Flora-bama.  We ate some delicious oysters, listened to live country music, and stuck our toes in the beautiful super fine white sugar sand beach.   Perfect way to end our day.

Thursday, September 28, 2017

Day 1: Breaking in our Sea Legs

September 28

Lakeshore Marina in Ponchartrain Lake-Biloxi, Mississippi 


                                             

We rose early to take advantage of the calm morning water .  I brewed a cup of ha
lf- caff coffee, Jacob walked Jeeno, and Joie got her camera ready.  Today is the first real day of boating, yatching, motoring, whatever you wanna call it.  We set out to cross Ponchartrain Lake.  The first bridge we came to was a swing bridge with workers were doing maintenance on it.  When we called the harbor master he wasn’t sure how long we were going to have to wait for the bridge to open.  Luckily, we only waited 10 minutes.  We crossed one more bridge and then entered the gulf.  The water were calm giving us a nice and smooth ride; a pleasant way to start our boating adventure.   
About half way through our trek the kids were hungry since they hadn’t eaten breakfast yet.  We tried to start our generator so they could
use the microwave for oatmeal, but it wouldn’t turn over.  They had granola bars for breakfast instead.
It took us about 4.5 hours to make it to Point Cadet Marina in Biloxi, Mississippi.  This Marina had a different style dock than we were used to.  It was a concrete dock with wood pilings.  We pulled the boat straight in at first and nearly took out our bow by almost crashing into the tall concrete dock.  So scary!  I’m starting to think docking the boat is scarier than motoring over open ocean.  We gassed up and were pleasantly surprised to find our fuel consumption was half what we projected.  It still cost almost $500 to fill, Wowzers!  $2.35 a gallon adds up when you have a 460 gallon tank!  We also pumped out our bathroom holding tank.  It has been full so we haven’t been able to use it.  YAY, now we can go poop on board!  
We had to dock a second time; this time backing up so we could connect to shore power.  We had a heck of a time trying to back into our slip.  The current was so strong it kept pushing our stern into the opposite direction. After about seven or eight attempts we finally got her in.
After we were all tied up we had to address our generator problem.  A mechanic stopped by to look at it.  He gave us some pretty bad news, salt water was leaking into an area it shouldn’t and needed a new hose.  He nor anyone else could confidently work on it in Biloxi and the shops in Ocean Beach, where we were heading next didn’t have the appropriate parts in stock.  Meaning we would be stuck in Mississippi/ Alabama til at least Monday.
We were able to get a hold of our mechanic, Tom, from Louisiana.  He recently worked on our generator and engines.  Thankfully, he said it was normal especially if you try to start it at sea. From now on, we start it from the beginning or not at all.
We finished off the night with dinner at Bubba Gump and a hot tub session inside the neighboring Golden Nugget.  Aside from a few hiccups it was a great day!

Wednesday, September 27, 2017

Catching Dreams

About a year ago Jacob had damn near given up on his dream of running a dive operation.  We were both bartending in Vegas, making good money, great health insurance, and job security.  We owned a home, had weekly family/friend gatherings, Joie was a sophomore in high school and involved in a few extracurricular activities, and Jayden your average video game playing 11-year old.  We were living the "American Dream".  Unfortunately, that wasn't Jacob's dream.  

He was finally settling into the idea that we would live in Las Vegas until at least Joie was out of high school.

BUT THEN...

An old friend called him out of the blue and resparked his flame of desire.  Jacob got our business license, networked, and started searching for a boat.  As soon as he found this boat he proclaimed, "This is our boat!"  We didn't have the money to purchase it right away; we were waiting for his friend's investor.  We put our house up for sale planning everything to move forward.  As the month's passed our house didn't sell and the investor and Jacob's friend fizzled out.  Once again we were back to square one, well two; we did have a business license. 

We took our house off the market and continued living the "American Dream" with a bit more remorse.  The kids and I were content, but not Jacob.  He fell into a bit of depression witnessing his dream once again fall through.  A few months later he lost his job.  Though we couldn't afford to continue our lifestyle with him unemployed I wasn't worried.  I actually encouraged him to put all his efforts into making his dream a reality instead of looking for a new job.  I didn't like idea of what our lives would look like in 10 years if he got another bartending gig.  He started setting up dive trips and  traveling back and forth to St.Thomas.  He was able to supplement his income with diving easing the stress of his recent job loss.  "Our Boat" was still available and waiting for us.  So we decided to put our house up for sale.  With the sale of our house we would be able to purchase the boat on our own with no investors or loans!  Talk about a blessing! 

And NOW here we are...

We officially own and live on a boat!  Her name is Dream Catcher in honor of making our dream a reality. She's a 38 foot custom Newton-style dive boat.  If you woulda asked me at any point in my life if I would live on a boat, I would have chuckled and responded with a bold ABSOLUTELY NOT!  Its funny how life works, hahaha.
 
For the last two weeks while we've been working and living on the boat getting her prepped for our trip to St Thomas, USVI we've been staying in Slidell, Louisiana.  It's about 30 minutes away from New Orleans. The people down here are absolute gems, blessing us with their southern hospitality!  There is so much kindness, culture, history, and great food- po'boys, shrimp n grits, fried catfish, and boudin balls!  I know I'll be back to visit!  
 
Yesterday, we took Dream Catcher out for a run fully loaded and ready to go. Oh my GOSH!!!  This trip that we are about to take is one of the scariest things that I could ever do!  I am much more comfortable being on land.   It's scary, but also exhilarating! We are about to embark on the journey of a lifetime.  Not many people can say they have traveled from Lousiana to St. Thomas on a 38 foot motor boat.  I am even more thrilled that our kids will be experiencing this journey with us as well.

Monday, September 11, 2017

Baby Gators

I drove the whole way from San Antonio to New Orleans today.  It was an easy yet looooong drive.  Towards the end I was starting to get leg cramps from pressing on the gas.  I tried to use cruise control but the hills and traffic made it nearly impossible; it was the strangest thing.

Just before Lafiette, LA we stopped at the Gator Chateau.  We saw a billboard advertising holding a baby alligator; how could we pass that up?!  It's a city funded alligator rescue where anyone can stop by to hold baby alligators for free!  We held one that was about 6 months old and 12 inches long.  Their whole mission is to rescue them, educate people about them and then grown alligators go to a protected refuge; since they have been fed by humans they cannot be released into the wild.  I'm so glad we stopped!


 


Sunday, September 10, 2017

Destination: San Antonio

We arrived in San Antonio, Texas yesterday.

First stop: check into our pet friendly hotel.  Whoa!  What kind of cleaners are they using to cover up the smell of animals?!  It was so overwhelming when we walked in we had to open up the window to air it out.

I started using natural products to clean my home since it's better for my family's health and the environment.  If your interested in which ones I use let me know.

Second stop:  BBQ dinner.  We are recently acclaimed pescatarian's, but we can't come to Texas and not eat BBQ!  We went to a Two Bros BBQ Market and can you believe they were out of brisket!!!!  Such a disgrace; it must have been good!  We settled for some pulled pork and some other meat that was comparable to brisket with potato salad,  baked beans with peaches in it (I personally wasn't a fan of the peaches), and of course mac-n-cheese and sweet tea.  I was definitely hoping for some brisket but overall it was a tasty and heavy filling meal.



Third stop:  The Esquire Tavern on River Walk, downtown San Antonio.  Its the oldest tavern in that area and they boast about their longest/oldest wooden bar top; it's 100 feet long!  Might I add...their cocktails are of superior quality; it's a mixologist's haven.  I had a gin based cocktail with lemongrass and cilantro bitters, garnished with fresh lime peel.  Jacob enjoyed a tequila old-fashion.  Both were impressively prepared.  I find so much enjoyment in watching a great bartender/mixologist create a cocktail.  It's truly an art.

Today,  we went to Six Flags Fiesta, a roller-coaster theme park and water-park in one!  And....we already had acceptable season passes so we didn't have to pay for admission!  Needless to say we vetoed Schlitterbahn; free was much more appealing than spending $240.

Final Stop:  The Cove, a restaurant suggested and visited by Food Network star Guy Fieri on Diners, Drive-Ins, and Dives. As soon as I saw they had a lamb burger I knew we had to go.  Jacob loves lamb!  I ordered the Bella burger, portobello mushroom with sautéed spinach and onions on a gluten free bun, the kids spilt a bison burger. All the food was very tasty and to make the meal more enjoyable, they are a dog friendly establishment so Jeeno didn't have to stay in the car!

6 am tomorrow: Head to New Orleans



Friday, September 8, 2017

God Has a Plan

Hey Y'all!    

I feel like I am playing catch up trying to get this blog up-to-date so I can write in real time instead of the past.  

Our initial travel plans were to leave Las Vegas on September 3, drive to Albuquerque, stay there one night then drive all the way to Texas where we could stay with family for a few days.  After that we were planning to hit Schlitterbahn Water park since we would be relatively close and its been on our bucket list.  Straight from the water park we would drive 3 hours to break up the drive to New Orleans.  Jeeno, our dog and 5th 'J', would stay in New Orleans with a dog sitter while we finished out the drive to Florida to drop off our truck so it could be shipped to St Thomas.   We would then fly back to New Orleans to jump on our boat and motor it from N.O.L.A. to Cape Coral, Florida.  Near there is a channel we would follow through Florida to Lake Okeechobee, continuing on until we made it to the Atlantic Ocean.  

After much deliberation, we decided we would take the boat down to St. Thomas ourselves.  It would save us some money AND....it would be an experience of a lifetime!   We would hire a captain who has made this trek before to ensure a bit more safety and another knowledgeable deckhand since we have NEVER traveled this way before.  I am fully confident in my husband's ability to get us there, but not so confident in my ability to help at this time.  I mean come on- I was born and raised in Vegas, I'm a desert rat!  

From Florida we would stop in the Bahamas, Turks, Dominican Republic, Puerto Rico, and then finally arrive in St Thomas roughly September 23.

Those were our plans until hurricane Irma came in this week wreaking havoc on the Caribbean.  Needless to say, we have pushed back our travels a week as of right now waiting for more progress of where Irma will hit in the states and what will become of hurricane Jose as it continues to strengthen.  

Irma has hit every island that we will stop at on our journey.  I am thankful we didn't caught in the middle of it, but saddened by the devastation it has caused.  Tragedy is more afflicting when it hits close to home.  Sadly, I have never been affected by a hurricane and therefore unsympathetic to its destruction.  God always has a way of showing me  just how imperfect I really am.

At this point I don't know how our travels will pan out, but  l will document it.  Jacob just commented today," God is really showing me to only focus on today." 


Matthew 6:34 New King James Version

...Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things.  Sufficient for the day is its own trouble

 I am confident that God has a plan and that He has our back.  We took a leap of faith, following our hearts, and dropping everything that was comfortable and "normal".  We could have lived a "good" life in Vegas, but honestly, we weren't happy.   So here we are!  It's crazy to think how our lives have changed in the past month.  I feel like anything can happen!!  We are still heading in the same direction- to St. Thomas- just on a different time frame and arriving to a mess. Who knows what God has in store for us on the way and once we get there! Whatever it is...it's gonna be GREAT! 

Tuesday, September 5, 2017

#Adventuresofthe5js

Jeeno is the 5th "J" in our family.  Yes, we are one of those weird families that have all our names starting with the same letter, including our pets!



This pup is coming along for the thrill ride of traveling to St.Thomas.  The first part of our journey is a cross country drive. 

Jeeno likes car rides, but it seems he may not like them as much as I thought.  A couple hours outside of Vegas and we were all sick of his whining so we pulled over to a gas station looking for some Benedryl.  All we found we Dramamine.  We checked the internet since the internet knows all, haha. We happily found it is safe for dogs.  It's typically used for motion sickness.  I don't think Jeeno was car sick but who knows.

Our Jeeno normally eats anything and everything, but he wouldn't freely eat these yummy orange flavored pills.  We forced him to swallow 2, 50 mg pills = 100 mg of Dramamine.  It took 45 minutes for him to finally stop whining.  After about 1.5 hours he finally laid down.  With relief I jokingly said to Jacob, "What if he's dead!  Oh well, it'll make our travels much easier." 

I love My Jeeno and would be devastated if he died, but honestly traveling with a large anxious dog is challenging!  Every move we make has to be made with consideration of Jeeno.  Driving across the states seems to be fairly easy, find pet-friendly hotels and dope him up, haha.  I am currently researching what we will need to do as we island hop our boat to St.Thomas, that process is going to need another post.

Shortly, after my comment Jacob opened the window and Jeeno's head popped up.  I was relieved that he wasn't dead, but hesitant that the Dramamine worked.  To my surprise Jeeno didn't whine the rest of the 6 hour drive so I guess it did!

I bought some Benedryl for the rest of our trip.  Apparently, Benedryl's active ingredient is also good for motion sickness so we'll see if it works the same as Dramamine or better.

Sunday, September 3, 2017

Leaving Las Vegas

Today September 3, 2017 We are leaving Las Vegas.  Yesterday we our final friends and family BBQ. Our house has been sold,our belongings shipped, and now we begin our trek across the southern states of the USA.

So long Vegas, So long Big and Beautiful mountains...I'm gonna miss you!

Friday, September 1, 2017

Losing Lyme Finding Freedom


I have a friend who was diagnosed with Lyme disease 3 years ago.  She has been sick since she was a young girl, bit it wasn't until after she moved to Las Vegas that she was properly diagnosed.  Lyme disease affects your whole body and can conceal itself as many other illnesses.  I barely knew anything about the disease when Braedy was diagnosed.  As our friendship has grown so has my knowledge of the disease and how it affects her.  Most times people would never know that she is sick because she doesn't complain about anything.  She does what she can on days that she feels alright and doesn't commit herself to many things.

She has been doing okay for the last couple months.  I hesitate to use the word okay because her scale of "ok" is quite different than the average person.  In The last month, however, we are all noticing her health decline. She struggles to sit upright for over 3-4 hours, her brain is getting foggy making talking exhausting, and she has constant body aches and pains.  It's to the point where daily activities like showering, grocery shopping, cooking, laundry, cleaning are difficult.  They MUST be split up, with rest in-between.  If she does too much she'll have to stay in bed to recover.  It's sad to think this is what life is for her.  She wants to do so many things but physically it's just not possible.

Last week, she was given a glimmer of hope.  She was offered a grant for a new hyperthermia treatment that has an 84% recovery rate!  Lyme Disease will never go away but it could go into remission which would mean better days for Braedy.  Unfortunately, even with the grant the treatment costs $10,000.  So we are raising money for her. Asking for help and sharing her story is extremely uncomfortable for her and her husband and right now it seems like the only way she has hope for better days.  She just started a blog so anyone can follow her story Here

If you would like to contribute financially or know someone who may Click Here